How can you be a virgin?

Your therapist Erica is shocked that you are still a virgin. "You just didn't make enough an effort" "Just be yourself" "Sex is essential for proper brain development, you need to take this seriously, OK?" Erica offers you a wealth of advice on how to find a GF, with her perplexed why sex, something that naturally just happens to people without making extra effort at it, would be so difficult to you. Will you be a good patient and learn how "being yourself" will find you the girl of your dreams...or will you stubbornly cling to the idea that it is hard to get sex?