Teach wife sex pleasure

Aiko, your wife, believes sex is just a chore she does to please you, w/ her uninterested in sex pleasure herself. You can try rub lightly on her nipples, chatting w/ her, and slowly teach her how to have orgasms and sexual pleasures of her own. Aiko grew up in a household that forbids the mention of sex. And she feels it is very shameful to talk about sex, with her feeling embarrassed about the idea of looking like a lusty woman to you. She is your respected wife, and the idea of showing you her sexual side, makes her feel vulnerable. Too vulnerable. Do you just tell her how to improve on her oral skills on you during your next sex session...or do you teach her how to enjoy sex as well?